I think
that the Teachers as Mentors Guidelines is an excellent source for teachers to
learn how to really connect and help students. There are five main points which
include, beware of stereotypes in your thinking and teaching, take advantage of
technology, let students know you believe in them, take the time to establish
and maintain relationships, and if a more formal mentoring system is set up be
sure participants are trained and monitored (p. 537). These main points are followed by things that
an educator to do to meet these points. I think it is important for teachers to
be mentors to our students. We have such an impact on their lives, and we
really are a huge part of shaping who a student is and how they perform. One
point mentioned was to showcase accomplishments of former students. I remember as a young student many teachers
would explain a big project and they would have examples of former students’
work from previous classes. This really helped, especially since the students’
examples that were used were not much older than us and we knew them
personally. I have also experienced this
in college. I was in an Advanced Composition
class at Governors State a few years ago and I received a very high grade on a
paper. When I received my paper back
there was a note on it from the teacher that was asking if she could have a
copy of my paper to hand out in the rubric for next semester’s class as an
example. This really gave me confidence in my writing skills, especially since I
wasn’t sure how I would do in an advanced class. I think that keeping touch
with students and keeping the door open to provide guidance in the future is
helpful (p. 537). I am friends with some
of my former grammar school teachers on Facebook and there have been a few
times that I have asked for advice and I have receive it. Most of these
teachers are now retired and I believe that it is great that they are still
willing to help former students from over 10 years ago. I look up to them and this is the kind of
teacher I hope to be one day.
I believe
that a student’s family is a large part of their success in school. We can teach students, mentor them, and be
there for them, however we cannot be with them twenty-four hours a day. The skills and studying habits that they
learn in school need to be carried over at their homes. A large part of student success is family involvement. This includes informing the student’s family
about what the student is learning, procedures in school and making sure that
families help the student succeed. The Family and Community Partnership
Guidelines are a good way for teachers to know how to involve families in a
student’s education. One of the guidelines
includes helping families find a comfortable and helpful role in their child’s
homework (p. 526). One of the points
made in this section is to have some homework assignments that are fun and
involve the whole family (p. 526). I
remember creating a family tree as a child.
This assignment involved finding pictures of family members, researching
their occupations and culture, and putting together a poster board that showed
all of this information. I think that this was a good project that helped my
parents really get involved with my school work. Luckily, I always had parents
who were very involved in what was going on at school and helping me with my
homework. However, a project like this
was fun for not only me, but my parents enjoyed looking back at their family
members. Another point made was if no
one is home to help with homework, set up other support systems. As I got older (around 3rd-4th
grade), I went to an after school program for a couple of hours, because no one
was home. My grandparents could have
picked me up, but my parents thought it was a good idea to be in a place with
other students and teachers who could help with homework. We sat in a classroom and completed homework,
but there was always a teacher there if we had questions. This was a good way for me to receive help if
I needed if, even if my parents could not give me help immediately after
school.
The Coping
with Anxiety Guidelines is something that really stuck out at me in this week’s
readings. I have had anxiety for a long time and I think that these guidelines are
very accurate in helping to reduce a student’s anxiety. One point it mentions is to write test
instructions on the board or on the test itself instead of giving them orally
(p. 455). I remember that I liked it
more when teachers would write instructions on the board, because then I would
be more focused on the test, instead of being focused on the directions and
getting something wrong. Since many tests
a broken into different parts and each part has different directions, I liked
that many of my teachers put directions on the board.
I like that
the text offers many guidelines for different situations. I find that these guidelines will be helpful
when I start teaching. As educators, we
need to know how to handle situations and these guidelines serve as a good
starting point. Helping our students succeed is the main goal of all
educators. Whether is it helping
families be connected to their child’s education, helping them with anxiety, or
being mentors, teachers need to know how to deal with all of these situations
and help students through them.